My sister sent this to me on Facebook and thought I’d share it with my fellow bloggers. It reminds of when my elder brothers and sisters reminisce about the good old days when they were kids.
It’s also a stark reminder of how things once used to be and how things are now. It’s written by David Eisner. I’m not sure who he is but I enjoyed reading this and my sister did get a little emotional when she read it to me over the phone.
… and do let me know if you relate to this post and how you feel about things having changed so much.
First, we survived being born to mothers who smoked and/or drank while
they were pregnant. They took aspirin, ate blue cheese dressing, tuna from a can and didn’t get tested for diabetes. Then after that trauma, we were put to sleep on our tummies in baby cribs covered with bright-colored lead-base paints.We had no childproof lids on medicine bottles, locks on doors or cabinets
and when we rode our bikes, we had baseball caps not helmets on our heads.As infants & children, we would ride in cars with no car seats,
booster seats, seat belts or air bags. Riding in the back of a pick up truck on a warm day was always a special treat.We drank water from the garden hose and not from a bottle. We shared one soft drink with four friends, from one bottle and no one actually died from this.
We ate cupcakes, white bread, real butter and bacon. We drank Kool-aid
made with real white sugar. And, we weren’t overweight. WHY? Because we were always outside, playing…that’s why! We would leave home in the morning and play all day, as long as we were back when the streetlights came on. No one was able to reach us all day. And, we were O.K.We would spend hours building our go-carts out of scraps and then ride
down the hill, only to find out we forgot the brakes. After running into the
bushes a few times, we learned to solve the problem.We did not have PlayStation, Nintendo and X-box.. There were no video
games, no 150 channels on cable, no video movies or DVD’s, no surround-sound
or CD’s, no cell phones, no personal computers, no Internet and no chat
rooms.WE HAD FRIENDS and we went outside and found them!
We fell out of trees, got cut, broke bones and teeth and there were no
lawsuits from these accidents. We ate worms and mud pies made from dirt, and the worms did not live in us forever.We were given BeeBee guns for our 10th birthday, made up games with sticks
and tennis balls and, although we were told it would happen, we did not put out
very many eyes.We rode bikes or walked to a friend’s house and knocked on the door or
rang the bell, or just walked in and talked to them. Little League had tryouts and not everyone made the team.. Those who didn’t had to learn to deal with disappointment. Imagine that!!The idea of a parent bailing us out if we broke the law was unheard of.
They actually sided with the law! These generations have produced some of the best risk-takers, problem solvers, and inventors ever.The past 50 years have been an explosion of innovation and new ideas. We had freedom, failure, success and responsibility, and we learned how to deal with it all. If YOU are one of them? CONGRATULATIONS!
You might want to share this with others who have had the luck to grow up
as kids, before the lawyers and the government regulated so much of our lives
“for our own good”. While you are at it, forward it to your kids so they will know how brave and lucky their parents were.Kind of makes you want to run through the house with scissors, doesn’t
it?The quote of the month is by Jay Leno: ‘With hurricanes, tornadoes, fires out of control, mud slides, flooding, severe thunderstorms tearing up the country from one end to another, and with the threat of bird flu and terrorist attacks, are we sure this is a
good time to take God out of the Pledge of Allegiance?’
I am going to reblog this for sure!!
Be my guest…:)
Hi,
Brilliant and all so true. 😀
It’s so different from my upbringing. Mines was stricter and I wasn’t allowed out so much.
Man when I read this I can imagine doing each one of these things. Funny how people from all walks of life could relate to this type of childhood….which by the way was the best childhood!!!
So true I’ve had so many emails of people telling me this from all different countries and cultures.
You can’t allow your children to walk any where alone now days or they may end up on a milk carton…or on some porn video from some sick bastard…Times has truly changed and not for the good.
And the obesity rates has went up for real because these kids are so lazy now!!
A lot changed due to child abductions etc. I rarely let my nieces and nephews out on their own.
No one feels their kids are safe anymore which contributes towards the fact it’s safer letting them stay indoors playing on game consoles and sitting on the net.
I wonder if things could ever be like that again.
Probably not, but America could do better with (parenting) I mean we could go outdoors with our children and play a little kickball or soccer or something instead of buying them tons of expensive video games. This summer I plan to do more outdoor activities with my kids…just because I am guilty of all of the above…computers, video games and so on…
We did do outdoor activities with our parents. But never alone.
A foster family I lived with used to take us horse riding and biking all the time. They’d also make us walk to certain places, like the supermarket. We’d do our shopping then get a taxi back or the father would come buy car, pick up the shopping and we’d walk back home.
We have become a lazy bunch of fat asses…it’s so true 😉
SMH! giggles…
Oh so true!!!
Love and hugs!
Prenin.
Hugggggzzzzzzzz to you too 😉
Righto, Princess! I am a preschool director here, and the biggest thing I tell my parents is to limit ‘screen time’. What the heck happened to walking around the block after dinner with the kids?
You rock, Princess!
Much love,
Victoria
Thanks for dropping by Victoria….
I notice parents use screen time to control their kids, easier to plonk them in front of it than do something with them or take time out to discipline or deal with them.
Fresh air and exercise, it’s really that simple.
Pretty much, Princess! 🙂 Doesn’t take a university degree to figure that one out!
Funnily enough I (1976) had a computer, and my cousin (1974) had a games console. This didn’t stop us from playing outside.
Yeah But they took so long loading up you had time to play outside lol 😉
Thanks so much for dropping buy 😉
Although it’s true that the ZX81 and C64 took some time to load – knowing the game load screens we were able to tell how long the game still had to load – the Atari Games started up almost immediately.
Took the words right out of my mouth, our lives are so much regulated it’s unbelievable….sometimes you need lives a little out of control to enjoy.
This get’s a Twitter mention me dear!
Have fun
Aw thanks… I saw it… I’m so honoured 😉
The most ironic part is that so many of us would sit here and comment on this rather than going outside to enjoy the world 😛
Very ironic… Go for a walk… 😉
Went 😛 was fun being alone 😛
walk around the block then? 😛
Amazing so many of us managed to survive and thrive! Great post. So true. A Frank Angle recommended your blog to me.
Thanks to Frank Angle and a big thank you for dropping by… welcome to my space…
When I read this post I see how much times have changed and how limited we have become in our lives. It will never be like that again.
But ain’t the government and lawyers made up of same people born in that era?
Govts and lawyers change as do the laws and way of living. Nothing remains the same and everything is subject to change… but things are meant to change for the better not worse…
Nice 🙂
miss busy busy 😛
Loved this and shared on my facebook! 🙂
Thanks and great idea 😛
Those were the good old days the golden days , nowadays everything has changed .. But if we look its those who were born in those time who are adults now .. The world has become a sick place SO its them who have made it so bad ..
WE were born in the golden time but we have made a bad world for our kids .. so WHO is to blame .. US
I was born in that range 🙂 so maybe i am a culprit tooo
I think the child abusers and abducters made it change for everyone mainly also the producers of the internet and game consoles. While widening our scopes world wide by internet they have also managed to lock us in our own homes.
Too many are to blame.
my parents were pretty strict. but I still relate to loads of this. great blog
mines too… i was rarely allowed out to play…
Helicopter parents could be partly to blame too and not only the lawyers and government. http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Helicopter_parent
🙂 Cheers!
Is it really possible to over parent someone? Nowadays the accusations that there isn’t enough parenting.
Weird 😛
Reblogged this on theconservativehillbilly.
🙂
Hi Aneesa! 🙂
I just spent all day burning two DVD’s only to find a new bug each time! 😦
It takes about four hours to create one disk, but I’m down to the last bug (The End appears too early) so tomorrow I should have the full thing done.
Crazy as it sounds I have to watch the entire thing so now I know Bill’s sermon almost by heart!!! 😦
Have a great week my friend! 🙂
Love and hugs!
Prenin.
Is that good that you know it of by heart now? 😛
huggggzzzzzzzz
Nope – it’s my penance for missing so much church! LoL!!! 🙂
You are so right about kids not being allowed to go out for fear of something happening to them – this is nothing new: My childhood was a constant nightmare and I saw far too much that no child should have to experience.
These days the kids are told adults are the enemy and the law says they are untouchable, so they prey on the vulnerable and run riot because nobody is allowed to stop them – and if you do the kids are just likely to kill you for the fun of it…
Today things are peaceful around here, but I suffered over 25 years of hassles from teenage gangs and despite being the good guy I paid a heavy price, but now things are much better! 🙂
One thing is certain: Only a fool would work with children in this country…
Love and hugs!
Prenin.
One thing I’ve noticed about you Prenin is your amazing inteligence and I love the way you write… it’s always so open and honest…
I remember how my secondary school teachers used to be so fed up.. many of them used to say.. who wants to teach a bunch of kids that don’t want to learn.. most of them wanted to be teaching in private schools or colleges… so you may have a point in your last sentence for sure…
Hugggzzzzzzzzzzzzz
Saw it before , great !!!! I feel the same and also born long time ago 🙂
But I didn’t have the text anymore , so I copied it …. its not so original but saved me a lot of time , great blog !
Glad to be of service….
Thanks for the great compliment… 😛
I love it. Thanks for posting this. What a wonderful blog you have. How clever are you to have all this stuff swirling about!
aw thanks for your kind words… and a bigger thank you for dropping by… hope to see you again soon 🙂
I’ll certainly be back. I’m delighted to find another Scottish blogger oh and I also sent a link to a friend of the “permission to date my daughter post” – I know he’ll love it.
We Scots do need to stick together 🙂
What a wickedly added
posting my great friend 🙂
I hope that you are enjoying
a very nice evening Princess 🙂
Androgoth XXx
Evening went very well O’Dark one and it’s good to see you out and about.
Wish you a pleasant rest of week my wickedly delightful friend.
Huggggzzzzzz 😛
I love your post. I am reminiscing over my childhood. It is so true! Thank you for sharing. Thank you also for stopping by my blog and for the ‘like’. Blessings!
It was a pleasure and thanks for coming over.. please come again… 🙂
Grüsse mal lieb und wünsche eine gute Nacht Gislinde.
It’s amazing any of us survived such dangerous times! I don’t think kids would even know how to play outside by themselves these days.
How true. Laila I have fallen from a tree, had my knees always bruised. used to walk and play with tennis ball or just hopped over a geometrical drawing on the earth made with finger or with a sharp piece of broken pottery.
Incidentally I am at the moment writing my childhood experiences on my blog shakilakhtar.wordpress.com, “SHAHJAHANPUR LIFE (LITTLE BAZAR)” and now I am set to post second instalment in a day or two.
cheers.
Wünsche ein schönes weekend Grüsse lieb Gislinde
ich wunsche dir auch ein shones wochende und grusse lieb… 🙂
Do they even make pointy scissors anymore?
I’ve seen them at the hairdressers and that’s about it…