Sometimes in life we take knocks and falls. We get the bruises and grazes and we just get back up, brush ourselves off and carry on. Many a time we don’t even think about it again and move on, getting caught up in the hubbub and hussle bustle of life. The bruises and grazes heal and all is forgotten about.
Then there are those times that nothing seems to go right, as hard as we try what seems to be in our grasp just eludes us. So many times you try and try, you move heaven and earth to make it happen but it’s just not meant to be.
You sit and wonder why O why is this happening to you? Why is the world against you? Why is your relationship falling apart? Why didn’t you get that job? Why are you penniless? Why is everyone hurting you?
It’s questions that sometimes the answers are simple or there are no answers. In truth it just isn’t meant to be.
But it’s hard to accept this and we blame everyone else and the world for our shortfalls, failures and heartbreaks.
We begin to be bitter when it’s so much easier to learn from our past. Make our experiences and mistakes lessons, learn from them instead of blaming society, your family and everyone else.
When did blaming everyone else for your problems and past issues help? Yeah it makes you feel better temporarily but you end up manifesting feelings of bitterness that carry on into your future. It will effect your future relationships, decisions and life.
Best thing to do is man up and admit it just wasn’t meant to be and stop holding everyone else responsible for your own deep underlying issues. It can be tough I know but one thing I’ve learned in life is no matter how hard we, push, plot, plan, be devious, be courageous to get what we want, it won’t happen.
Sometimes we don’t even try and something just happens, it just falls into our laps. So it’s really simple, if it’s for you it won’t go by you. Let the bitterness go and move on.